Reassure your child of your love. The insecurity that you describe also sounds like the jealousy of these two aspects are related to each other. When your daughter is not sure of the love you have for her, she can begin to be jealous when she sees you displaying affection toward others. She may have unrealistic expectations of what she wants for her.
Insecurity and jealousy are very natural reaction. As before entering the children are often nakakaugnay by their feelings, they may show it to little hesitation. They can throw tantrums, show aggressions, and exhibits behavior. Some may recognize the person they are jealous of (ie emulate the behavior of a baby sleeps in a hut). We can sense your disappointment in her severe reaction. And your hostility can easily translate to disapproval and withdrawing your affection when he reveals the insecurities. We suspect that the more you speak sharply to him, the louder his tantrums available. If it is, then he should be throwing these tantrums to try to get what he want: reassurance that you also love him.
